Since we are a young family (going on 2.5 years!) we think often about the traditions and routines we want to start and what value/meaning they have. Christmas is definitely a season I think a great deal about what traditions to adopt and what to say no to. There is just so much to consume even on this level during this season! Its hard to know what to accept, what to adopt, and what to reject.
This year we got an artificial Christmas tree (thank you Grandma Judy!) which is beautiful and doesn't cause Drew to sneeze. :) After learning more about the traditional Christian liturgical year and holidays (Advent, Christmas, Epiphany, Lent, Easter, etc) reading
Living the Christian Year by Bobby Gross (IVP) there was one tradition in particular I wanted to adopt.
You see, Christmas is actually preceded by Advent - traditionally a season of
waiting & hopeful expectancy. Advent was often commemorated by fasting, simple living, and definitely no celebratory parties or decorations.
So I decided that at home we would celebrate Advent by putting up our Christmas tree, but waiting to decorate it until Christmas Day. Christmas is not just one day, but a season of 12 days (hence the song) lasting until January 6th. Having our Nativity scene figurines out and a bare Christmas tree was a great reminder of what was coming, but not yet here.
This might seem sad, but it really changed my perspective. As Christmas neared more and more decorations went up around us, the frenzy to buy more increased, and seeing all this my
expectation was not heightened but halted, consumed even. There were few places outside my own home where I felt I could find that quiet.
I think, as a well-off well-educated 21st century American I often rob myself of waiting, expectancy, and quiet. I can have or get anything I want at anytime - even Christmas...even the Savior?
There is good reason Jesus made himself in the form of man and moved into our neighborhood as a babe. He had to take the same 9 month journey in his mother's womb that we all do. Mary and Joseph had to wait for this promised child. Israel had to wait for him for hundred's of years.
I think of how often people lement missing that "childish" feeling of expectancy on Christmas morning because the magic of Santa is gone or we know what is under the tree or we know there are no more surprises. But what if the magic is still there? what if there were surprise gifts for each of us under the tree each and every year?
I think there are. I think the magic is in Jesus' birth, the fact that the most powerful being in all the universe chose to become a lowly infant to Middle Eastern parents who would soon be refugees so that we might know how vast his love is. And I think there is a gift for us each year, each day, that no one can change - God loves you.
I think too often I let my desire, my want, and greed to take away my own opportunity to wait. And that is when the surprise is lost. I lose out on the opportunity for the Lord to speak to me anew, to reveal his love for me, in his way, in his time.
Thanks for Advent Lord. Thank you for knowing I need to wait on you.
Here is our celebration, and offering of thanks to the Lord on Christmas Day 2010: